Communicate.
It is sincerely THAT easy. Sit her down in a neutral setting, probably not at school or anything, but a neutral setting. Not at your house, not at her house. Go out to a park and just sit and talk. Tell her how all these things hurt you and really make it clear that you are uncomfortable with it. If she tells you to deal with it or just completely ignores how you feel, that is when you know you need to let go.
To be honest, with how she's acting, she's trying to make you jealous. She is making you chase her. She wants that feeling of being pursued by someone. I won't lie, I hit a phase where I do that with my boyfriend. I just want him to reach out and show that he cares. And I'll be the first to admit, it doesn't work.
Look at you. You're miserable. But at the cost of your happiness, she is getting what she wants. Is that really okay?
As I said earlier, you need to communicate that you are NOT comfortable. That is the key to relationships: communication. If you cannot communicate, you cannot maintain a relationship. And if she truly cares for you, she will stop. If she doesn't stop or doesn't want to stop, you need to just end it before you get hurt more. Better hurt for a few weeks or months than for years. Get out then while you still can, no matter how much it may hurt. If she says she'll stop, then resumes, then you need to sit her down again and ask what gives.
I wish you luck, dude. If you need a girl's perspective of anything relationship wise, I'll be more than happy than to help you out. Just shoot me a PM. =]
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