Wednesday, 31 October 2012

Study: Use of antipsychotic drugs improves life expectancy for individuals with schizophrenia

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Contact: Stephanie Desmon
sdesmon1@jhmi.edu
410-955-8665
Johns Hopkins Medicine

Results of a Johns Hopkins study suggest that individuals with schizophrenia are significantly more likely to live longer if they take their antipsychotic drugs on schedule, avoid extremely high doses and also regularly see a mental health professional.

Psychiatrists have long known that people with schizophrenia who stick to a drug regimen have fewer of the debilitating delusions and hallucinations that are hallmarks of this illness. But there have been concerns about whether some of the known side effects of the medications increased risk of cardiovascular disease and diabetes, for example carry higher mortality risks, the researchers say.

"We know that antipsychotic medications reduce symptoms, and our study shows that staying on reasonable, recommended doses is associated with longer life," says Bernadette A. Cullen, M.B., B.Ch., B.A.O., MRCPsych, an assistant professor of psychiatry and behavioral sciences at the Johns Hopkins University School of Medicine, and leader of the study published in Schizophrenia Bulletin. "The same is true for going to see a psychiatrist or therapist," she says, noting that regular visits to a mental health professional are one way to monitor and encourage drug-use compliance, but also in and of themselves increased survival in this vulnerable population.

Cullen and her colleagues analyzed data collected between 1994 through 2004 on 2,132 adult Maryland Medicaid beneficiaries with schizophrenia. The researchers reviewed how much medication the patients took, how regularly they took it and how often they visited a mental health professional. The goal of the study was to review how adherence to the 2009 pharmacological Schizophrenia Patient Outcomes Research Team (PORT) guidelines was associated with mortality in this population.

Comparing data from year to year, the researchers found that among those patients who had 90 percent or better compliance with their medication schedules, the risk of death was 25 percent lower compared to those who were less than 10 percent compliant. Over the decade-long study period, taking medication did not increase the risk of death and there was a trend towards reducing the mortality rate. In addition, the researchers found that each additional visit per year to a mental health professional was linked to a 5 percent reduction in risk of death overall.

Cullen's study did not rule out all links between increased mortality and antipsychotic drugs. For example, her team found that people who took high doses of first-generation antipsychotic medication daily (1500 mg or greater chlorpromazine equivalents) were 88 percent more likely to die. She says mortality rates possibly increased in this group because first-generation antipsychotics have been associated with cardiac disease risks, and among those who died while taking the larger doses, 53 percent died of cardiovascular disease. "These drugs work very well, but there is clearly a point of diminishing returns," she says. "You rarely need to be on extremely high doses."

Among those whose information was reviewed, the most common cause of death was cardiovascular disease (28 percent); unintended harm, including suicide, was responsible for 8 percent.

"If people are taking their medications, they usually have fewer symptoms and are able to be more organized in other areas of their lives," says Cullen, director of community psychiatry at The Johns Hopkins Hospital. "We believe they are then more likely to make appointments with their primary care doctors, to stay on top of other illnesses they may have and to regularly take diabetes, blood pressure or cholesterol medication that they may require to stay healthy. We also believe that they are more likely to be socially engaged and have a healthier lifestyle."

"If your illness is under control, you can do a lot more," she adds.

Cullen says the study clearly lays out the value of mental health providers to individuals with schizophrenia. Those who saw therapists or psychiatrists were more likely to survive, regardless of whether the individual also took his or her antipsychotic medication on a regular basis, she says.

This finding is crucial, she says, given that Maryland Medicaid officials are considering capping the number of mental health visits allowed each year, something the data now suggest is potentially detrimental to survival.

Cullen notes that adherence to a medication regimen and moderate first-generation antipsychotic dosing are both part of the 2009 PORT recommendations designed to guide treatment.

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The study was supported by a grant from the National Institutes of Health's National Institute of Mental Health (R01MH074070).

Other Johns Hopkins researchers involved in the study include Emma E. McGinty, M.S.; Yiyi Zhang, Ph.D.; Susan dos Reis, Ph.D.; Donald M. Steinwachs, Ph.D.; Eliseo Guallar, M.D., Dr.PH.; and Gail L. Daumit, M.D., M.H.S.

For more information: http://www.hopkinsmedicine.org/psychiatry/specialty_areas/community_psych/


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Study: Use of antipsychotic drugs improves life expectancy for individuals with schizophrenia [ Back to EurekAlert! ] Public release date: 1-Nov-2012
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Contact: Stephanie Desmon
sdesmon1@jhmi.edu
410-955-8665
Johns Hopkins Medicine

Results of a Johns Hopkins study suggest that individuals with schizophrenia are significantly more likely to live longer if they take their antipsychotic drugs on schedule, avoid extremely high doses and also regularly see a mental health professional.

Psychiatrists have long known that people with schizophrenia who stick to a drug regimen have fewer of the debilitating delusions and hallucinations that are hallmarks of this illness. But there have been concerns about whether some of the known side effects of the medications increased risk of cardiovascular disease and diabetes, for example carry higher mortality risks, the researchers say.

"We know that antipsychotic medications reduce symptoms, and our study shows that staying on reasonable, recommended doses is associated with longer life," says Bernadette A. Cullen, M.B., B.Ch., B.A.O., MRCPsych, an assistant professor of psychiatry and behavioral sciences at the Johns Hopkins University School of Medicine, and leader of the study published in Schizophrenia Bulletin. "The same is true for going to see a psychiatrist or therapist," she says, noting that regular visits to a mental health professional are one way to monitor and encourage drug-use compliance, but also in and of themselves increased survival in this vulnerable population.

Cullen and her colleagues analyzed data collected between 1994 through 2004 on 2,132 adult Maryland Medicaid beneficiaries with schizophrenia. The researchers reviewed how much medication the patients took, how regularly they took it and how often they visited a mental health professional. The goal of the study was to review how adherence to the 2009 pharmacological Schizophrenia Patient Outcomes Research Team (PORT) guidelines was associated with mortality in this population.

Comparing data from year to year, the researchers found that among those patients who had 90 percent or better compliance with their medication schedules, the risk of death was 25 percent lower compared to those who were less than 10 percent compliant. Over the decade-long study period, taking medication did not increase the risk of death and there was a trend towards reducing the mortality rate. In addition, the researchers found that each additional visit per year to a mental health professional was linked to a 5 percent reduction in risk of death overall.

Cullen's study did not rule out all links between increased mortality and antipsychotic drugs. For example, her team found that people who took high doses of first-generation antipsychotic medication daily (1500 mg or greater chlorpromazine equivalents) were 88 percent more likely to die. She says mortality rates possibly increased in this group because first-generation antipsychotics have been associated with cardiac disease risks, and among those who died while taking the larger doses, 53 percent died of cardiovascular disease. "These drugs work very well, but there is clearly a point of diminishing returns," she says. "You rarely need to be on extremely high doses."

Among those whose information was reviewed, the most common cause of death was cardiovascular disease (28 percent); unintended harm, including suicide, was responsible for 8 percent.

"If people are taking their medications, they usually have fewer symptoms and are able to be more organized in other areas of their lives," says Cullen, director of community psychiatry at The Johns Hopkins Hospital. "We believe they are then more likely to make appointments with their primary care doctors, to stay on top of other illnesses they may have and to regularly take diabetes, blood pressure or cholesterol medication that they may require to stay healthy. We also believe that they are more likely to be socially engaged and have a healthier lifestyle."

"If your illness is under control, you can do a lot more," she adds.

Cullen says the study clearly lays out the value of mental health providers to individuals with schizophrenia. Those who saw therapists or psychiatrists were more likely to survive, regardless of whether the individual also took his or her antipsychotic medication on a regular basis, she says.

This finding is crucial, she says, given that Maryland Medicaid officials are considering capping the number of mental health visits allowed each year, something the data now suggest is potentially detrimental to survival.

Cullen notes that adherence to a medication regimen and moderate first-generation antipsychotic dosing are both part of the 2009 PORT recommendations designed to guide treatment.

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The study was supported by a grant from the National Institutes of Health's National Institute of Mental Health (R01MH074070).

Other Johns Hopkins researchers involved in the study include Emma E. McGinty, M.S.; Yiyi Zhang, Ph.D.; Susan dos Reis, Ph.D.; Donald M. Steinwachs, Ph.D.; Eliseo Guallar, M.D., Dr.PH.; and Gail L. Daumit, M.D., M.H.S.

For more information: http://www.hopkinsmedicine.org/psychiatry/specialty_areas/community_psych/


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Friday, 26 October 2012

Tustin engineer wins small business award | program, rawal, sba ...

The owner of a Tustin engineering firm will be honored as small-business owner of the year at a luncheon Thursday as part of Minority Enterprise Development Week.

Dhananjay Rawal started Enviro Compliance Solutions Inc. in his garage in 2001 after his employer filed for bankruptcy.

Dhananjay Rawal started Enviro Compliance Solutions Inc. in Tustin after his former employer filed for bankruptcy. He is the 2012 MED Week small business person of the year for the Santa Ana District of the Small Business Administration.

PHOTO COURTESY ENVIRO COMPLIANCE SOLUTIONS INC.

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"We were expecting our second child and my wife couldn't believe I wasn't going to take a job with benefits, but I needed to do it on my own," Rawal said.

The company has grown from a one-person consulting firm to nine employees doing engineering, environmental consulting and construction nationwide. The MED Week award honors owners whose businesses have participated in the U.S. Small Business Administration's 8(a) program that assists socially and economically disadvantaged business owners.

Rawal said he didn't know anything about the program until a potential customer mentioned that Enviro Compliance Solutions could get more contracts if it were certified as an 8(a) company. "I got the certification and my first contract was $160,000," Rawal said. "Now we are doing $5 million to $6 million in projects a year."

He said his company has benefited from classes in such topics as accounting principles from an SBA representative.

Rawal came to the United States from Mumbai, India, in 1988. He attended UC Irvine and then finished his education at Cal State Fullerton while he worked full time.

Also at the MED Week luncheon, Kusuma Kavia, executive vice president of Combustion Associates Inc. in Corona, will be honored as the 8(a) graduate of the year, which recognizes companies that have outgrown the government assistance program.

Marie Johns, SBA's deputy administrator, said, "The 8(a) program is one of the most effective tools we have to help small businesses and entrepreneurs in underserved communities grow and succeed."

She said the SBA has recently launched an online series of programs to help companies that are not yet ready for the 8(a) program. The first 30-minute tutorial is an overview of the program. The second 40-minute tutorial is about winning federal contracts. Two more tutorials will be released by the end of the year. The tutorials can be accessed at sba.gov/gcclassroom.

Contact the writer: 714-796-7927 or jnorman@ocregister.com


Source: http://www.ocregister.com/articles/program-375520-rawal-sba.html

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Message Center ? USO and Partners Invite Americans to Grant a ...

Oct 25 2012

The USO and partners will recognize Veterans Day with Grant a Wish for Our Heroes, an initiative that will give Americans opportunities to thank those who serve in the Armed Forces by granting wishes for our troops and their families by supporting them in a variety of ways. Through Grant a Wish for Our Heroes, Americans can take part in supporting the unique programs and services most requested by our troops and families by supporting the USO and its many partners at uso.org/grant-a-wish.

For years, troops and families have been telling the USO what programs and services they need the most through a comprehensive annual survey, ?Tell USO,? and the USO has responded. Our programs help ease the stress of deployment for both troops and their loved ones. Others provide the comprehensive support our servicemen and women need when they return home. And many help our wounded, ill and injured troops as they recover and re-enter their new lives as veterans.

This Veterans Day, the USO asks Americans to help support these USO programs and initiatives that our troops have requested most:

  • Holiday Boxes for Deployed Troops- Many deployed troops spend holidays away from their families. The USO helps bring a touch of home to troops with boxes containing decorations games, snacks, movies and themed items. All designed to bring holiday cheer those serving in the most remote corners of the world.
  • Connecting Troops to Families Back Home- Missing the birth of your child may seem hard to imagine, but it?s a reality for many of our troops overseas. The USO has made it possible for some of our military dads to witness the birth of their child, via Skype. This November, we?ll also be helping those dads send some special items home to their newborn and mom- so they can be a part of those first precious weeks of their child?s life.
  • Support Child Heroes- Help the USO provide the book ?Little CHAMPS? (Child Heroes Attached to Military Personnel) to military families in order to ease their challenges and fears of deployment, relocation and injury of a loved one. Author Debbie Fink provides a book that tells the story of five child heroes and their military lifestyles and raises awareness of military connected challenges.
  • Education, Employment and Community Reintegration for our Wounded Warriors- USO Warrior and Family Care provides Hire Heroes USA/USO Workshops and Careers Opportunity Days for wounded, ill and injured service men and women, their spouses and caregivers. The workshops focus on resume writing, mock interviews, professional work practices and translating prior military experience into a civilian career. Career Opportunity Days are in collaboration with Hire Heroes USA and the U.S. Chamber of Commerce and offer our healing heroes, spouses and caregivers a non-traditional career fair where employers connect on a personal level based on interest and background. Employers conduct mock interviews and provide feedback, providing an additional level of support for transitioning troops to meet with employers offering jobs.
  • USO Warrior & Family Center at the Walter Reed National Military Medical Center at Bethesda- On November 7th, the USO will break ground on its second 20,000 square-foot building that will support our healing heroes and their families battling invisible wounds like traumatic brain injury and post traumatic stress. The first center at Fort Belvoir is scheduled to open in 2013 and will support our healing heroes recovering from physical wounds. The two centers will include movie theaters, classrooms, sports lounges, business centers, healing gardens and more.

To learn more about Grant a Wish for Our Heroes, visit uso.org/grant-a-wish which highlights our USO corporate partners, USO best-in-class program partners and our USO locations and events that are granting wishes this Veterans Day.

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Thursday, 18 October 2012

Kaspersky software could secure nuclear plants

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DUBAI (Reuters) - Russian anti-virus software company Kaspersky Lab is developing a secure operating system to run computers inside nuclear power plants and other vital infrastructure and industrial plants, its founder and CEO said on Tuesday.?

Eugene Kaspersky, the Russian computer scientist turned multi-millionaire cyber security expert, told reporters at a company news conference in Dubai the system was at the prototype stage, with his Moscow-based company in talks with government institutions about installing the new operating system. He declined to identify any, saying the talks were confidential.?

Energy and water plants, factories and transportation systems are typically run with SCADA (supervisory control and data acquisition) systems that are accessible via conventional computer networks, making them vulnerable to hackers, Kaspersky said.?

SCADA software is sometimes left unaltered for decades, which means that it does not get updates to protect against security bugs as they are discovered.?

"It's not possible to design SCADA in a secure way, so the most obvious solution is to have a secure envelope which monitors what's going on within SCADA," Kaspersky told Reuters after announcing the project.?

"Engineers travel with laptops, USBs, so even if the system is disconnected from the Internet there is traffic."?

Computer hacking was once seen as the preserve of rogue programmers working alone or in small groups.?

These usually targeted company websites and caused little long-term damage, but the rise of so-called "hactivist" collectives as well as suspected state-sponsored cyber attacks has shifted the threat towards government-run institutions energy, transport and telecommunications networks. Many such plants use firewalls designed to protect SCADA systems from being infiltrated by malicious bugs. But Kaspersky said he was developing an entire security-focused operating system to beef up their security further.?

Some 30,000 computers at state oil producer Saudi Aramco were infected in August, although there is no evidence that the virus got into its industrial control systems. But the Stuxnet worm virus that penetrated Iran's nuclear enrichment facility is now freely available on the Internet.?

"After Stuxnet, the attacks on Aramco and other incidents, governments and enterprises are listening," Kaspersky said.

Earlier this month U.S. lawmakers said China's top telecom equipment makers should be shut out of the U.S. market as they posed a potential security threat, but Kaspersky was unconcerned that his new operating system might attract similar concerns.?

"This system is quite compact ? it's easy to check it doesn't have extra functionality ... you own it," he added.

Source: http://www.nbcnews.com/technology/technolog/kaspersky-plans-software-securing-nuclear-plants-1C6519427

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Sales Manager - Apparel, Easton-Bell Sports, Scotts Valley, CA ...

Job Description
The Sales Manager - Apparel will be responsible to establish the selling foundation of our emerging Giro - Apparel business. The ideal candidate will have proven experience in successfully creating an initial yet scalable sales program to meet and exceed business & market expectations. The Sales Manager - Apparel will implement all dimensions of sales management (i.e., strategies, forecasting, pricing, competitive landscapes, market conditions, and customer/field sales support programs) at the regional level. It is a goal/results driven position requiring a positive, highly motivated and apparel market savvy sales leader.

Essential Job Functions:
Achieve or exceed sales objectives, while maintaining profitability and ensuring 100% customer satisfaction.
Work with the National Sales Director to analyze business and product trends, opportunities for growth and development of actions plans to maximize sales.
Maintain strong customer relationships with all the key & target accounts in the assigned region to build and maintain our categories business.
Travel to each sales territory a minimum of twice per year and provide feedback from our customers to product marketing, R&D, customer service, operations and sales management teams.
Develop annual sales and incentive programs to drive growth while maintaining or improving margins.
Provide the operations team with annual forecasts and rolling projections.
Meet regional sales financial objectives by forecasting requirements, preparing an annual budget, scheduling expenditures, analyzing variances and initiating corrective actions.
Work with the product marketing and R&D teams to help develop products that will keep the brand in a market leadership position.
Develop a strong working relationship with Regional Sales Managers, Key Account/OEM management including the International Sales team as appropriate to facilitate team selling.
Periodically review and adjust national sales plans as needed to ensure that objectives are being met.
Partner with IBD Reps to establish effective pre-call plans and objectives to ensure productive and consistent customer interactions.
Maintain a strong working knowledge of EBS products and services, competitive product features and programs as well as applications utilized by our customer base.
Maintain a working knowledge of current and potential activities/situations that may affect sale revenues.
Recruit, hire, educate, direct and manage IBD sales representatives in the assigned region.
Drive regional sales force performance through leadership, vision, motivation and business acumen.
Attends all sales meetings, training sessions, trade shows, clinics and conferences as required.
Travels up to 40-50%.

Education and Training:
Bachelor Degree in Business Management, Marketing or related field experience required.
Minimum five (5) to 10 years successful sales and/or sales management experience selling athlete apparel / lifestyle apparel required.
Management level experience in developing, leading and maintaining a successful sales team.
Proven track record of teamwork and working well within a matrixed organization (e.g. marketing, management, finance, R&D, customer service) to complete sales and to service customers.
Proficient with MS Office applications. SAP experience desirable.

Skills and Abilities:
Excellent time & project management skills.
Strong people management skills with proven track record of developing & mentoring successful sales teams.
Ability to quickly build/maintain positive and effective working/customer relationships.
Demonstrate a high level of energy and enthusiasm.
Excellent verbal, written, presentation and interpersonal communication skills.
Strong analytical, strategic thinking and problem solving skills.
Strong business acumen with acute understanding of sales cycles
Self-confident, self-motivated, self-starter, results-oriented and success driven.

At Easton-Bell Sports we love determination and perseverance it is part of what makes us a great company! And we also value the professional privacy of each of our team members. Therefore we respectfully ask that you do not contact our executives or hiring teams directly.

Resumes and cover letters will only be accepted by clicking the apply now button below or submitting by direct email to:
joinus@eastonbellsports.com

To learn more about careers at Easton-Bell, please visit:
www.eastonbellsports.com/careers

Choosing to cross this boundary is cause for a personal foul, flag on the play, time in the penalty box, well you get the picture! We hope to see your resume submitted soon!

Easton-Bell Sports is an equal opportunity employer.

We are Easton-Bell Sports.
Tomorrow is ours.
Because of the time we put in today.
We will be smarter. And faster. More resilient. More Clever. More Vocal. More open.
And maybe a little less serious.
We are devoted to sports and the people who play them. We vow to make them stronger and better.
If we fail, we learn. If we win, we improve.
Because our direction is ever forward.
Our passion is always with purpose.
Our success, humbly inevitable.
This is our time. Tomorrow is ready.
Lets take it.

Are you ready to take it?
We are looking for the very best to help create our tomorrow.

Source: http://www.malakye.com/ASP/front/sendmail.asp?ID=17943

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Technology Creep: Remember When Motorcycling Was Simple?

Schuberth S2

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I'm no luddite. In fact, I'm probably as anchored to my iPhone as a teenager making prom plans. But bluetooth helmets have me eternally conflicted over the issue of technology creep.

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Helmets with listening devices are nothing new (remember the good ole' Chatterbox?), but Schuberth's new S2 takes audio technology a step further by featuring the world's first embedded antenna. Schuberth says the dual-band antenna?improves FM radio reception and?enhances sound quality when communicating with other riders up to 1/2 mile away. The otherwise innocuous looking lid also offers bluetooth connectivity with streaming stereo audio, along with active noise cancellation so the folks on the other end can't tell you're jamming down the highway at breakneck speeds.

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Do I unconditionally disapprove of devices that distract from the simple joys of moving through space on two wheels? Absolutely not. Especially on long rides, there's something great about listening to tunes or discussing the finer points of scenery with your riding partners. But like limiting hours spent watching television or surfing the 'net, a little bit of discretion goes a long way towards maximizing the enjoyment of the very thing you've set out to do... what do you think?

Source: http://www.popularmechanics.com/cars/news/auto-blog/schuberth-helmet-features-embedded-antenna?src=rss

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Twilio Is Crushing It: 150K Devs, 1.5M Phone Calls/Day, 500M Total ...

Twilio?s CEO Jeff Lawson gave a passionate keynote today at his cloud telephony startup?s conference today peppered with big stats and quotes like ?Communications is now in the domain of software. We focus on the user, and we will win.?

Twilio now powers big names in tech like Uber, eBay and Hulu, has 150,000 developers and is expanding internationally to disrupt ye old telecom industry.

The news was unveiled today at TwilioCon, Twilio?s developer conference in San Francisco, as co-founder and CEO Jeff Lawson took to the stage to proclaim Twilio?s success in disrupting the carrier hegemony. ?In telecom, the playing field has been leveled,? he said, because of the shift away from expensive hardware to cloud-based software, such as kind that Twilio offers.

Twilio today announced that there are now 150,000 developers using its APIs, with?almost 1.5 million phone calls a day and 500 million phone calls done on the Twilio platform. [Correction: Twilio has processed 500 million total phone calls and 1.5 million phone calls per day, not 1 billion total and 1.5 million API calls as we originally published].

And Twilio is on track to accelerate with the introduction of local numbers now into 20 more countries that will take its total footprint to 40 countries. This is a significant addition, considering that in the past Twilio has ramped up in increments like this. You can see the full list of supported countries here.

The expansion means that Twilio can now offer developers local phone numbers on every inhabited content [excepting Antarctica], reaching markets where it has not been before such as Australia, parts of Asia and Latin America. (Australia, notes Lisa Weitekamp, associate product manager at Twilio, had been the most-requested country of all the ones where Twilio did not offer numbers.)

Though it has momentum, this all doesn?t mean cloud telecom is a one-horse race. Veteran telephony API provider?Voxeo Labs has 200,000 developers in its Tropo?dev community ? more than Twilio does today. There?s also?talk that Twilio has lost some key talent?around developer relations, which could mute optimism about the company.

The company is taking on carriers around the world with its innovative API-based service, which lets developers create cloud-based phone numbers in web and mobile apps that cost less than similar services offered by carriers, and are significantly easier to deploy across multiple geographies ? users do not need to strike country-by-country relationships for one thing.

But carriers are now starting to get with the program: Telefonica, for example, has its Blue Via API effort, which recently added its first outside carrier, Telenor, with plans to extend that to more in the near future. (Interesting side-note, Telefonica?s former head of developer relations for Blue Via, James Parton, now works for Twilio in Europe.) Twilio announced its biggest partnership yet with AT&T?last month, though the integration?s deployment seems to be on hold as some materials about the deal were retracted.

These partnerships are leading Twilio to start focusing not just on more universal services ? such as this 20-country expansion for voice, but also to focus more on the quality of its service. To that end, today it also announced a new Global Low Latency (GLL) and quality service created by ?employing geographically strategic data centers and intelligent routing?. In layman?s terms, this ensures that calls made on its network are only cost-effective but also that they sound good.

It also potentially introduces the idea that Twilio may at some point start offering different quality-of-service levels for users, similar to the way that carriers do.

Weitekamp notes that Twilio is starting with voice but is looking at ways of extending other services to more markets as well. SMS, she notes, needs separate mobile agreements in many countries, which will take some time to iron out. She would not comment on whether and when Twilio would roll out entirely new services such as video calls or billing.

?Striking carrier deals and deploying infrastructure around the globe was a significant undertaking,? said Thomas Schiavone, director of product management at Twilio. ?But we knew we?d be measured by our call quality and this is only way to ensure the best experience for our customers around the world.?

Twilio continues its goal to deliver one API with global reach. In July, the company announced outbound SMS to over 200 countries, and support for a variety of languages, such as Arabic, Chinese, Japanese, Greek, Russian and dozens more.

The big message of Twiliocon was the idea of prioritizing customer experience. Lawson praised Twilio developers, exclaiming ?You?re focused on the user instead of the scaffolding. Others are shackled to big hardware and big software. You?re going to win.?


Twilio offers developers a powerful API for phone services to make and receive phone calls, and send and receive text messages. Their product allows programmers to more easily integrate various communication methods into their software and programs. Twilio allows developers to use their existing web development skills, existing code, existing servers, existing databases and existing karma to solve these communication problems quickly and reliably. System is based on Asterisk.

? Learn more

Source: http://techcrunch.com/2012/10/17/twilio-is-crushing-it-150k-developers-1-5m-api-calls-a-day-1b-total-phone-calls-expanding-to-20-more-countries/

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Wednesday, 17 October 2012

You Don't Want to See Richard Lugar Angry (talking-points-memo)

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Campus Opportunities for Involvement

3OH!3 Concert

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October 18th?at 8pm

$10 current student w/cougar card??????$20 general public

Day of Show:

$15 current student cougar card???????????$25 general public

Student tickets at the TD Arena Box office

General Public:?www.cofcsports.com

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CAB presents:?

Open Mic Night!

When: Oct. 17th from 7-9pm

Where: Yo Burrito on Wentworth St

Come out and watch your fellow students perform or perform yourself! You can do anything from singing, to comedy, to poetry and everything in between! Email meadkm@g.cofc.edu to sign up to perform! If your not the performing type there will also be FREE FOOD FROM YO BURRITO!!! Make sure you come out to support your friends and get some delicious food!

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Election Viewing Party

Calling anyone and everyone interested in the 2012 Presidential Election (that?s you): CAB is hosting an election viewing party on November 6 in the Stern Center Ballroom starting at 7:30pm. There will be tons of free food and a chance to win prizes by answering political trivia. We will be streaming the election results live from Fox and MSNBC and we?ll watch the internet polls as well! This is definitely a party you don?t want to miss.

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Fall Leadership Conference http://hslc.cofc.edu/flc/index.php

Are you Leading Change or is Change Leading You?

Register Now!

This year?s keynote presentation:

Change at 120 MPH?with Your Hair on Fire!

With information and activity coming at us at speeds and volume never before experienced, one of the greatest leadership challenges of the day is coping with CHANGE in efficient and effective ways.?

Three core skills are at the heart of leading change. ?They are ironclad goal setting,?communicating, and leveraging the Seven Dynamics of Change. ?This presentation will take you through these three components of leadership by incorporating experiential and cognitive learning techniques.

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Recognized Student Organizations

Looking for a fun and easy fundraising opportunity?

Help staff concession stands at the TD Arena during men?s and women?s basketball games!

For more information, contact Jason Davidson, Food Service Manager for Aramark at Davidson-Jason@Aramark.com or (843) 953-5538.?

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CAMPUS RECREATION SERVICES

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FALL 2012 INTRAMURAL SPORT LEAGUES

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FALL 2012 TOURNAMENTS

SPORT/TOURNAMENT DATE ? Must be signed up by 5:00p.m.

*Tournament will start at 7:30p.m.

Racquetball ? Nov. 5, 2012

KNOCKOUT ? Nov. 26, 2012

Basketball Shootout ? Dec. 3, 2012

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FALL 2012 PLAYDAYS

SPORT/DATE

*Play will start at 7:30p.m.

Whiffleball ? Oct. 24, 2012

Kinball ? Nov. 7, 2012

Team Handball ? Nov. 14, 2012

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FALL 2012 NET NIGHTS

Indoor Soccer ? Tuesdays ? 7:30p.m. ? 11:00p.m.

Volleyball ? Thursdays ? 7:30p.m. ? 11:00p.m.

Badminton ? Fridays ? 6:00p.m. ? 8:00p.m.

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? 843-953-5559

? http://campusrec.cofc.edu

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Campus Recreation Services Fitness Opportunities

Students pay a $35 fee to participate in all of these CRS Fitness Classes including ZUMBA!

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Cardio Kung Fu
This workout is designed to develop whole-body fitness using techniques that can be practiced anywhere without the need for weights or machines and is for people of all fitness levels. The cardio workout utilizes exercises from a variety of Kung Fu styles that emphasizes core strength, power through plyometrics as well as the mind, body, spirit connection.

Time: Monday & Wednesday 3:00 ? 4:00 p.m.
Max Class Size: 12
Registration: Register at Silcox Room 206
Location: Meet at Stern Center Lobby. Class will take place in Marion Square
Dates: September 24 ? November 5. No class on Monday, October 15.

Cougar Training
Cougar Training is a high impact, high intensity non-traditional workout. This class will test your strength and stamina by pushing your mind and body to the limits. The class will use kettle bells, free weights, medicine balls and a variety of other fitness and strength building apparatuses. The class will utilize a variety of training methods that will keep your body guessing and your mind sharp.

Time: Monday ? Friday, 7:00 ? 7:50 a.m.
Max Class Size: 30
Registration: Register at the CRS Offices, Silcox Building, 24 George St. Room #206
Location: Johnson Center, 30 George Street.? Upstairs Room #J201.
Dates: August 27 ? December 3.? No class on Monday, October 15.
CRS Boot Camp
Let our CRS Drill Instructors get you in shape by providing a challenging atmosphere in a supportive environment. CRS Bootcamp will use a variety of cardio, bodyweight, and weight bearing exercises to build muscular endurance and shape your body to where you want it to be!
Time: Tuesday, Thursday and Friday, 8:00 ? 8:50 a.m.
Max class size: 30
Registration: Register at the CRS Offices, Silcox Building, 24 George St. Room #206
Location: Tuesday, Thursday, Johnson Center, 30 George Street.? Upstairs Room #J201.
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Dates: August 23 ? November 29.
CRS Flash Fitness
This is a 30 minute, high intensity, total body workout that utilizes cardio and resistance training. This crash course in fitness is sure to be the most productive half hour of your day.
Time: Monday, Wednesday, & Friday 4:30 ? 5:00 p.m.
Registration: Class is available to first 40 students at the door with a valid cougar card.
Fee: None
Location: Johnson Center, 24 George Street.? Upstairs Gym #215.
Dates: August 22 ? December 3.? No class on Monday, October 15.
Racquet Sports Partners
Interested in finding new persons to play or just plain tired of practicing by yourself?? Any racquet sport player may join our listing to find others seeking additional chances to play.?
To fill out the form Racquet Sports Partners, visit:
https://docs.google.com/spreadsheet/viewform?formkey=dGRiS0ExMjB3WjM2aHNHck9lRjYzRXc6MQ
Run 4 Fun
This is a partner pairing program.? If you like to run but would prefer to run with others, this service can be of help.? Interested persons who join the listing can then identify those runners with similar interests, whether based on running pace, choice of running locations, training type program, etc.?

See the information flyer at http://campusrec.cofc.edu .

For more information contact:

Kevin Ferrelli

Campus Recreation Services Coordinator

206 Silcox Gym

24 George St.

843-953-5559

443-223-6121

ferrellikd@cofc.edu

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LeadMORE- Sophomore Leadership Program

?Fall 2012 Workshops:?Register now!

The times for workshops have been changed to 4 p.m.-5 p.m. at the Higdon Student Leadership Center, 69 Coming Street.?

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Personal Budgeting and Finance

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Monday, October 8

Choosing a Major, Academic Planning

??????????? Tom Buchheit, Academic Advisor

Thursday, October 25

How to get an Internship

??????????? Katie Smith, Internship Coordinator at the Career Center

Monday, November 5

How to Handle Stress Effectively

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Thursday, November 29

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Sociology Department

Do you want to volunteer outdoors, doing something fun and interesting! Then Dixie garden is the place for you!
Saturdays, Sept 29th, October 13th & 27th?come join us at Dixie for our fall garden work day.
Never planted anything before? That?s OK! We will teach you how to plant seeds, transplant seedlings and much more!?
We will be building a perennial herb garden and planting some fall greens in the raised beds so we need lots of help. We will start?at 7am?but you are welcome to show up when you please! If you would like to get in on the carpool from CofC, James Island, or Mt. Pleasant, or need directions to the Plantation, please feel free to contact Carmen Ketron (ketroncn@g.cofc.edu).
Be sure to like us on Facebook for all the garden updates and upcoming work days throughout the year!?
https://www.facebook.com/Dixie.Sustainable.Garden

Peer Assistant Leaders (or PAL) is a simple way to help your classmates and the community. Students volunteer two weekend nights per semester to help their peers get home safely. Our aim is to help Charleston area students avoid negative situations involving alcohol and crime, which usually occur often on the weekends and at night. This is a great way to meet new people, help the community, and learn more about downtown Charleston. If you are interested in volunteering with us, please contact Ezinne Agim, PAL Coordinator at palcharleston1@gmail.com

Center for Civic Engagement ? Dash for Trash

It?s that time again! The Center for Civic Engagement has started sign-ups for our annual Dash for Trash! Dash for Trash is a litter-collecting scavenger hunt in which student teams help clean up the East Side of downtown Charleston. Partnered with Keep Charleston Beautiful, our office helped create the event as a part of the national Clean Sweep initiative.?

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This year, Dash for Trash will be on Saturday, October 20th. You can register teams of 10 students or less on blogs.cofc.edu/volunteer under ?Dash For Trash.? Registration ends Friday, October 12. There will be prizes given out for most points collected, most recyclables collected, and most team spirit. Breakfast and lunch will also be provided.

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This is a great opportunity for students to get involved and have fun giving back to the greater Charleston community! Please feel free to contact our office with any questions. We look forward to working with you!

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Dance Marathon at CofC

Dance Marathon 2013 is underway and we would love to get you involved.?
What is Dance Marathon?

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DM is the largest philanthropic event on campus that raises money for MUSC?s Children?s Hospital. We raise money throughout the year and then have a 17 hour and 70 minute all night celebration for our fundraising efforts. The event consists of free food, interactions with MUSC patients, entertainment, DJs, and of course dancing.?
When is Dance Marathon???DM is February 8-9, 2013.?
How to get involved!
We would love to have you register as a team or individual. Each participant is asked to raise $150, but we will help you fundraise throughout the year with t-shirt sales, change collection, events, and easy e-mail campaigns. Don?t let the money scare you because you have months to reach this goal and we will help you every step of the way.?
Interested in Dance Marathon?
?We want to engage all of campus and of course you are a part of the student body. We will be having three information meetings where you can sign up to be on the morale team or on a committee.

?like? us on Facebook to get all the DM information updates you will need. We look forward to getting you involved.
Register Today! http://www.helpmakemiracles.org/index.cfm?fuseaction=donorDrive.event&eventID=1301

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Diversity Week Sheet Banner Contest

The Office of Institutional Diversity (OID) will host the College of Charleston?s 3rd Annual DIVERSITY WEEK
from Monday, October 22nd until Friday, October 26th. This year, OID along with other departments, will be sponsoring the College?s 1st Hip Hop Thursday Block Party on Thursday, October 25, 2012. As a part of the Hip Hop Block Party event, OID will host a Banner Competition to see which student organization can create the best ?Diversity in Hip Hop? banner. We look forward to receiving your submission. Please be as creative as possible.

The winning student organizations will receive financial sponsorship in the following amounts to assist with a future
programmatic event: 1st place winner: $150, 2nd place winner: $75 and 3rd place winner: $50

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Peer Assistant Leaders (or PAL)
?It is a simple way to help your classmates and the community. Students volunteer two weekend nights per semester to help their peers get home safely. Our aim is to help Charleston area students avoid negative situations involving alcohol and crime, which usually occur often on the weekends and at night. This is a great way to meet new people, help the community, and learn more about downtown Charleston. If you are interested in volunteering with us, please contact Ezinne Agim, PAL Coordinator at palcharleston1@gmail.com call or text 843-480-7292

These are the dates that we will be walking for this semester.
October 5, 19, and 26
November 2, 9, 16, and 30
We will not walk in December due to exams.
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CATHOLIC STUDENT ASSOCIATION

Info? cofcatholics@aol.com

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Every Sunday at 5 PM students from all of the area colleges, especially CofC, are invited to join us for STUDENT SUNDAY CATHOLIC MASS. Located at St. Patrick Church ? corner of St. Philip & Radcliffe Sts.

ALL ARE WELCOME for this CSA worship.

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Every Tuesday, Stern 201, 7-8 PM join the CSA BIBLE STUDY? a discussion of John?s Gospel from the New Testament and application to our lives today. Students of?different faiths are attending! All are welcome!

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CSA is a sponsoring a RETREAT on Oct. 19-20 at Camp SeWee (about 30 miles from Charleston). Good discussions about faith and trust in college life. All are welcome!

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CofC Red Cross Blood Drive Sponsored by the Catholic Student Association
In one hour?s time you can save multiple lives and share with others the gift of life. Please consider signing up to donate blood sometime next Monday, October 8 from 10-4. To sign up e-mail Marie Schaner at mjschane@g.cofc.edu with the time that you are able to come.

Feminism for Beginners

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Do feminists burn bras? Do they hate men? What has feminism done for me? Find out the answers to all these questions, debunk common myths and hear personal stories from your peers. Join CofC?s National Organization for Women this Wednesday 10/3 at 7:00pm at 2 Bull St- EVERYONE IS WELCOME (that means you too men)! For more info contact Emily at cofcnow@gmail.com

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Phi Mu Oyster Roast Benifitting MUSC?s Children?s Hospital

Date: October 26, 2012

Time: 6PM-9PM

Location: Stern Center Gardens on the CofC Campus

All you can eat oysters?provided by Jamie Westendorf

entertainment provided by The?David Higgins Band

Catering TBD

Tickets: $10 Students, $20 Adults (selling in Cougar Mall)

Any Questions contact Alicia Petit?adpetit@g.cofc.edu

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Habitat for Humanity

If you want to be part of the club, you can sign up for LISTserv. LISTserv will give you automatic email updates which discuss our upcoming build days and what we went over at the meetings. To sign up, send an email to listserv@listserv.cofc.edu. The body of the email should say SUBSCRIBE HABITAT and then your first and last name.
Hope to see you all at the meeting! If you have any questions, Tessa Di Gennaro at digennarotj@g.cofc.edu

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Registration required: ?mcnamarar@cofc.edu

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PRE-HEALTH MENTORS!
Are you interested in pursuing a career in the health field? Medicine, dental, vet, nursing, etc. Are you at a loss for where to start? Come talk to a Pre-Health Mentor to get your questions answered. We can talk to you about what classes to take, when to take standardized tests and how to get all of those volunteer hours logged! Come to the School of Sciences and Math Building (202 Calhoun Street) room 100 on Mondays and Wednesdays from 11-1, Tuesdays from 12:30-1:30. Or send us an email to set up an appointment at?cofcprehealthmentors@gmail.com. We look forward to meeting all of you :)?

CofC book club?will be reading Gone Girl by Gillian Flynn. We are now meeting every Monday at 3:30 in the Stern center Gardens. If it rains our meeting will take place on the 4th floor of the Stern Center. Please note that our day and time is now different it is no longer Thursdays. Everyone is welcome to come to our meetings there will be yummy snacks and great conversation! If you have any question please email our president at?glennongp@g.cofc.edu

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Best Buddies??

A non-profit organization dedicated to pairing one-to-one friendships with people in the Charleston community that have physical and/or intellectual disabilities. Please fill out an application at?www.BestBuddiesOnline.org?and join our facebook group Best Buddies CofC.? SNACKS and/or FOOD is provided at all meetings and events.

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Women?s Club Volleyball

Interested in women?s club volleyball?

Practices Sundays 4-6pm Johnson Center Gym.

For more info email Alison at:?cofcvolleyballclub@gmail.com

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Reformed University Fellowship

Come to Rober Scott Small Room 252 on Wednesday nights at 7 for friends food and fellowship

email Kelsey Perkins at?kels717@gmail.com?with questions

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CofC Nursing Club.?

Meetings: October 30ths, November 27th, from 7pm to 8pm in SSMB room 129.? We will have speakers such as Mardi Long from the College of Nursing, and Karen Eipertt from CofC.? We are planning on attending relay for life, race for a cure, and creating tshirts and fun events for the school year!
questions call Rebecca at?864-423-4219?

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CofC Quidditch

The internationally-ranked College of Charleston Quidditch Team meets every week to play behind Addlestone Library. It?s still early in the season and we love introducing new players to the game. Bring your own (small, wooden, and durable) broom to the field behind the library at 7PM on Wednesday and give this growing sport a shot! (If you don?t have your own broom, we have a few spare.)

Spectators are always welcome! Remember to likes us on Facebook: http://www.facebook.com/cofcquidditch

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Toastmasters

Want to improve your public speaking?? Come check out Toastmasters International!? Whether it?s to overcome a fear of speaking in front of a group, working to improve your speaking ability, or just meeting new people, the Toastmasters club on campus involves students, faculty, and staff!? All are welcome!

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Meetings are every Thursday at Noon, on the 3rd floor of the Stern Student Center, Room 321.? There?s no pressure, come check it out!

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For more information, contact Dr. Mikhail Agrest at agrestm@cofc.edu

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Men in Uniform Date Auction

Presented By Best Buddies

Come bid on local fireman (downtown/West Ashley/St.Andrews/Columbia), military (ALL branches), Citadel Cadets, Athletes, Doctors, and more for a Date! All proceeds go to Best Buddies CofC, a non-profit organization that pairs CofC?students with people in the community that have physical or intellectual disabilities to form friendships.? Advanced?Tickets can be purchased in Stern Center 426B MWF 10-10:50 or Thursday 11-12 for $5 before October 20.? After October 20th?tickets will be $10.? Tickets may also be purchased at?Mercury Bar til the event for $10.? The ticket gives you admission to the auction and all you can eat dinner buffet. The Auction will be on November 7 (Wednesday) from 7-11 PM at Mercury Bar.? E-mail Bestbuddiescofc@gmail.com for more information.? If you are?a man in uniform and would like to be a part of our fundraiser please e-mail us as well.?

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The Charleston Vibes

Do you love to sing and perform? The Charleston Vibes is a NEW? acapella group on campus looking for singers of all voice parts! We? already have music to learn (including Alicia Keys, Gotye, Stevie? Wonder, etc.) so now all we need is YOU. If you?ve always wanted to? sing, auditions are:

Monday, Oct. 15th ? Wednesday, Oct. 17th from 6-8pm in Room 405 in the Simons Center for the Arts Callbacks will be Thursday, Oct. 18th from 6-8pm so if you are planning on auditioning, free your schedule for this day too.

Prepare a song to sing that shows off your voice and personality!

Please email Zoe Kurtz at kurtzz@g.cofc.edu if you can?t make it to these audition times but are still interested. Can?t wait to see you there!

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Archaeology Club.?

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October 20th: INDIANA JONES MOVIE MARATHON
starting at 6pm in Physicians Auditorium
Free movies and snacks
Open to the Public
Hosted by Archaeology Club and CAB

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October 25:

AIA Lecture in the Simons Center

Room 309 at 7pm?

Christopher Judge will be discussing ?Archaeology and Education at the Johannes Kolb Site?
Free and open to the public

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October 26-27

Archaeology Day?
10am-4pm in the Cistern on the 26th
Primitive Technology Live
Demonstrations free and open to the public
Primitive Skills Classes will be taught on the 27th from 9:30-12 pm at 126 Coming Street (Register at www.elementalskills,com)

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CofC Alliance for Planet Earth

?Alliance for Planet Earth will be having our first documentary night on Tuesday October 9, 2012 at 8pm in Stern Center Room 206. We will be watching Wasteland. Bring yourself and your friends!

Presidential Election Roundtable
October 18, 2012?from 5-6 pm in Maybank 100
. Join Professors Jordan Ragusa, Gibbs Knotts, Kendra Stewart and David Gillespie as they offer their insights into the 2012 Presidential Election! Each professor will give a 3-5 minute overview followed by an open Q&A session. We hope to see you there! This event is sponsored by the Political Science Department.

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Source: http://blogs.cofc.edu/parents/2012/10/16/campus-opportunities-for-involvement/

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PostPosted: Mon Oct 15, 2012 10:57 pm?? ?Post subject: The Death of Devotion (Why Relationships Don't Last Part 2) Reply with quote

I had a revelation today. Not only have people become so spoiled by technology that they must always seek the best and newest of everything, and it bleeds into their love life, turning their lovers into disposables.

The major part that I have missed is Devotion. Which means to give it all to someone, and to always stand by them no matter what.

The reason relationships don't work anymore is because people have no devotion. They expect to have the perfect relationship that requires little or no effort.

The very second things get tough, its easier to leave than it is to stand by them and work through it.

If people would learn not to take for granted the loving bond they have with another person; devote themselves. Things would be different.

We have been taught to demand so much perfection, and little do we know that its what makes us imperfect is what brings us all together.

Like this site, our imperfections have brought us together.

To me, perfection is just a pretty word someone made up. It has mislead the masses and its destroying mankind slowly, more and more every day.

Perfection killed Devotion, the death of devotion killed true love.

Anyone else has any thoughts?

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PostPosted: Tue Oct 16, 2012 1:39 am?? ?Post subject: Reply with quote

*PPR forum-related alert

If you believe people are here in the world as a result of a Creator then the natural conclusion is that the Creator himself is Perfection, and as a conclusion of that he requires Devotion. But it's not a slave-to-master form of obedience, but rather to be looked at in a sense that delicious food requires to be eaten.

With that in mind, you are correct, nobody is perfect, but the entity that brought us into being is, BTW I'm not trying to soapbox, merely attempting to demonstrate not only the reasons for our existence but most importantly on-topic, the reason we even have a desire to love and be loved - could that logically be a result of random asteroid collisions?

In that same vein, a friend of mine concluded from studying the Old Testament that the context of Devotion is giving away something you highly value with the stipulation of never asking for its return. I reckon where that plays in with us humans is when we 'give them our heart". It should go without saying that we want to give Devotion to trustworthy parties.

You bring up some valid gripes, modern relations do seem to be a lot like materialism. Pardon the theological monologue, I felt compelled to sound off and give my take on your keywords
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PostPosted: Tue Oct 16, 2012 3:51 am?? ?Post subject: Reply with quote

2wheels4ever wrote:
You bring up some valid gripes, modern relations do seem to be a lot like materialism.

To play devil's advocate (AND DON'T TAKE OFFENSE AND ASSUME THIS IS A CONDEMNATION or A JUSTIFICATION FOR THE BEHAVIOR OF OTHERS) Is it possible that what we're seeing now isn't just the result of changing attitudes, but rather a greater freedom to act upon those feelings?

That is, people weren't necessarily all that different in the past. If they had the freedom and luxury to end relationships on a whim, they would have....but most of them didn't, so it didn't happen as much. It's not that they were more ethical/moral/family-centric, it's that they didn't have the ability they would in modern society.

I'm not saying it's right, I'm saying what you're witnessing today is what you would have witnessed 100 or 200 years ago if it was socially permitted and feasible. Although its a modern manifestation, I don't believe it's a modern attitude. In the past, there were less options and less ability to do so.

So it's not just about the time we're living in, it's a greater question of human behavior.

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PostPosted: Tue Oct 16, 2012 6:19 am?? ?Post subject: Reply with quote

Personally I think you have failed to account for a very simple and essential factor: people often choose the wrong person for a relationship.

Previously, partners were carefully considered as social expectaions were somewhat high and iit was difficult to get a divorce, which encouraged people to carefully consider but also made it more difficult for those who made legitimate mistakes to seek a marriage to be absolved.
With that no longer being the case, people simply do not consider carefully enough their choice of partner.

It's something that was true before divorce was widespread and it's just as true, if not more true, now. You're just seeing it in the open much more now that the consequences have been removed (I'm not implying that consquences were good, just stating how their removal changed the dynamics).

I'm not saying it's always intentional but people often choose what they want rather than what they need, or settle for what they need and constantly wish after what they wanted, few manage to make an extremely compatible match in this regard. This factor alone probably accounts for a majority of failed relationships.
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PostPosted: Tue Oct 16, 2012 6:35 am?? ?Post subject: Reply with quote

Staying together is so old fashioned nowadays.
Last night I could have gone home with a married Russian woman.
Russian couples that migrate to NZ divorce at around 75% with the first 3 years.
Kiwi guys are just more modern....

Seriously though, I've been socialising with geese this last month.
Mate for life geese.

Loyalty was an evolutionary strength for humans, now it may be a weakness.
In todays modern world....
A female can achieve better for her young.... without the assistance of a male

Especially males with skid mark undies, sweaty balls, snorers, or mouth breathers.


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PostPosted: Tue Oct 16, 2012 6:40 am?? ?Post subject: Reply with quote

Plus the economy performs better when the house gets sold, lawyers get paid, dating sites get money, hairdressers, fashion, sex aid pills, gym memberships................

follow the money.........

staying together is not good for the economy ---- short term

but thats how the thinking is nowadays, short term gains only

Personally, I'm more like a goose
[did not go home with the Russian beauty]
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One of the best studied populations of geese: Individually marked Greylag Geese Anser anser were studied during 1959-1994 in Utterslev Mose (UM), a park and lake area in Copenhagen, Denmark.

http://www.dof.dk/sider/images/stories/doft/dokumenter/doft_2005_1_1.pdf

And for reference: I am a goose but the gander left!
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PostPosted: Tue Oct 16, 2012 3:33 pm?? ?Post subject: Reply with quote

Honk! Honk! Honk! thanks for the link

BTW In New Zealand divorce law changed in 1975 allowing half of the property and assets to go to both the man or woman. In the following 6 months, my parents and 2 best friends parents all divorced.

I think lawyers were real busy that year....

Before that time the woman walked away with nearly nothing.....

But usually stayed and suffered their unfair state sanctioned husbands domination
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PostPosted: Tue Oct 16, 2012 9:43 pm?? ?Post subject: Reply with quote

Surfman wrote:
BTW In New Zealand divorce law changed in 1975 allowing half of the property and assets to go to both the man or woman. In the following 6 months, my parents and 2 best friends parents all divorced.

I think lawyers were real busy that year....

Before that time the woman walked away with nearly nothing.....

But usually stayed and suffered their unfair state sanctioned husbands domination

The law here changed in 1975 too and the divorce rate skyrocketed since there was such a backlog of people who were previously unable to get divorced.

See graph here: http://www.aifs.gov.au/institute/pubs/images/rr20-fig5.png

DWH: I agree that it is better to be able to get a divorce.
But there are consequences to both being able to and being unable to, which I was simply commenting on in my previous post out of fact rather than opinion.
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